There are numerous psychological answers behind the quandary that perplexes insecure passersby and jealous men staring at these couples across the crosswalk. Unfortunately for the illiterate, the answer lies with the illustrious Jack Kerouac, who once wrote, “The world would never find peace until men fell at their women’s feet and asked for forgiveness.” You know what? After years of broken hearts and deceit by the hot men we so yearned after, women are really just looking for someone to show a little worship, a little praise. There's a multitude of reasons why that hot girl is holding the hand of that less hot man.However, after a few dates, guys get tired of always paying. Money determines what you do for fun, what you eat, where you live, and how you live. I don’t mind a weekend getaway, a hotel room for the night, or a fancy dinner once in a while. I would much rather train or invest money into my business. You have to remember that it’s your journey and your journey alone. Romantic partners will enter, stick around, and then turn into complete strangers. At the end of the day, you have to do what’s best for you. For example, I have a friend who disappears whenever he finds a new girlfriend. He stops working out, doesn’t respond to his buddies, and spends all of his money on her. I’m here to remind you that it’s okay to be a little selfish sometimes. Money is very important when it comes to your relationships. You can ignore it at first, but the topic of money will always creep up into conversation.
She knew that he was well-off financially so she took his offer for coffee and turned it into a steak lunch.And to be honest, I’m finding that it isn’t such a difficult concept to grasp.So what is it, then, with the guys I end up dating?As the divorce rate increases, boys continue to let us down, and sexual trysts with hot men only ever turn into one-night stands; maybe we no longer want to waste our time looking for the love our parents never found.A study reported in Daily News revealed that women who marry uglier men have happier marriages than ones who marry attractive men. Men are more concerned with the appearance of their mate, ensuring they will have good genes to pass on to their children. Your Tango's top experts dish on the seven telltale signs that he's dating you for your money.1. Whether you're a partner in a law firm, a successful entrepreneur or simply one of the many women who is very good at her job and is well-compensated for her skills, any lady of means is a possible sugar mama. So how do you know if a man is after you or your wallet? Since he has money, he didn’t mind paying for this surprisingly costly lunch date. He knew that she was taking advantage of the situation. On this particular afternoon, he went to meet her for a quick coffee/lunch because he had some spare time. She decided that she wanted to eat at a pretty expensive restaurant. These days, it's men who are dating women for their money.It's not just women who are successful in business. According to dating and relationship coach Nicole Johnson, "A man is dating you for your pecuniary prestige if he consistently proposes you go shopping together, makes continual references about traveling with you or constantly suggests going out to expensive venues."It's easy to go from talking about future romantic trips to suddenly paying for vacations.Every man I’ve been out with lately has a dysfunctional relationship with his wallet: cheapskates, millionaires, and the down-and-out and broke. I think banks and creditors are onto something: healthy financial standing is a positive indicator of creditworthiness. Good money habits are also a good indicator of a dude’s dateworthiness.Even if you are smitten with him, there are some unhealthy money habits that you absolutely should not ignore. There are a few basic things required to sustain life: food, shelter, and sleep.Please feel free to reject his boyfriend application if any of the following dings are present on his financial record. Video games (and cigarettes, booze, or protein powder) have never qualified as a necessity.