It's hard to tell when a guy is crazy, doesn't have game, or just thinks he's too good to be rejected.
Obviously, you want to steer clear of these types, but you don't want to lose your chances of something if you misread a guy.
In other words, being too nice, too sweet, accommodating, kind and generous with a woman alone, without the other elements of being an man, is not going to make her more attracted to him.
On the other hand, when a man demonstrates qualities that make him come across as more masculine – confidence, sense of humor, charisma, being able to lead in typical every-day situations, physical and mental strength and sexual aggression at the right time and in the right place – those qualities will make a woman admire him as an individual more and as a result will make her more attracted to him.
I didn't feel that I should go out of my way to be nice because I liked being nice. There are some women who want the nice guy because they understand that nice means good and not nice means bad. They aren't very open, keeping mostly to themselves – that's mysterious.
More than that, I thought that's what women wanted: men who were nice. However, most women seem to have the concepts confused. They distance themselves and give the cold shoulder whenever they don't want something from you; it makes her ego crazy – why doesn't he want her? If he just got to know her better, he would surely fall for her. Not because she’s not lovable but because he isn't loving.
I’ve decided to take a more in-depth look at these characters one at a time, with the first being Mr Too Nice to Date Twice. ‘Nice’ is an overused word that is getting both men and women the world over in trouble.This is because I truly believe that when you understand the more fundamental principle of what makes men attractive to women, you won’t have to worry about being on purpose more difficult that you really are.And that principle is this: a woman develops attraction, romantic and sexual interest and love for a man not as much because of how he treats her but because of How you treat a woman and how you make her feel when she is around you is of course important, but that’s only one, less significant part of the equation.See, sex, the basic, most fundamental romantic interaction between a man and a woman, is an inherently “dirty” act.It is dirty because people and especially women enjoy it most when it’s NOT played by the conventional rules.They were drunk in the street and the guy pretty much grabbed her and tried to kiss her.She screamed, pried him off of her and left the scene. Like most men, I learned rather quickly that being that nice guy wasn't the best of decisions. Then all of a sudden logic swarms back into reality and bad, once again, means bad.You see, I never saw being nice as a decision that needed to be made – I understood it as a state that naturally existed. Understanding why women go for those bad boys isn't difficult to understand.We’ve got people being nicer than they feel and people thinking that ‘nice’ is a four letter word for roll over and get treated like sh*t.When it comes to men, there is many a man that believes that he is too nice and that’s why women don’t date him (or progress things) and there are a hell of a lot of women out there, that dry up and get turned off when they spend time around a man that they deem ‘too nice’.When you put it this way, it's difficult to understand why it is that women go for these kinds of guys.However, the role the actions that result from such personality traits play on the psyches of women is undeniable.These texts were small talk texts like:"hows you're day going? ""guess where I am right now."My friend continued to be nice answering back, but I warned her that she had to stop answering him. Being friendly can only lead to no good in my opinion.