A dictionary definition of intimacy talks about close friendship, deep emotional connection, and sexual involvement.To be intimate with someone is to be close to him or her, to reveal private information, to feel linked together.If she’s not initially interested, touching can help generate that necessary spark. Note: For the physical touching levels, please use this article as a reference.And if she’s not interested at all, you find out early on and stop wasting your and her time. Meeting a girl at night (bar, club, party, networking event) Accepted touching levels: low, medium, high.when i see some iffy-ness when i meet her up, I just say "hey give me a hug so we can get that out the way"... then do the stupid palm reading trick, if she says "you know how to read palms ?
In another thread, a woman is complaining about men trying to make a move too early on in the date (or interaction).
That’s why when you’re interested in a woman you need to move things forward sexually. As the depth of your conversation progresses so should your touching, proximity, and overall sexual intent. By doing this, you build a connection gradually and smoothly.
It gives her a chance to accept your advances or let you know she’s not ready or interested.
If proper boundaries are not established, increasing intimacy can have some undesirable results – such as feelings of abuse or betrayal following a break-up, loss of appropriate personal boundaries without a commensurate commitment, and beginning to become one before the couple actually belongs to one another.
With this in mind, let's explore some boundary guidelines.