Like most men, I learned rather quickly that being that nice guy wasn't the best of decisions. Then all of a sudden logic swarms back into reality and bad, once again, means bad.
Men, the world over, have wondered why women continually pass up the quintessential nice guy who is loving, caring, giving, supportive, accommodating, faithful and head-over-heels in love with them.If he’s trying too hard, it makes us wonder if he really likes us for who we are, or is just hanging around because we’ve paid him some attention. It’s the perceived reasons behind “Nice Guy” actions that make them so unattractive—the desperate need to be accepted.Worshipping a girl comes across as fake; we usually just think “Nice Guys” are being nice to get something in return (attention, sex, or both), which, in our mind, doesn’t make them such “Nice Guys” anymore.She may believe she wants a nice guy, but in reality, she doesn't want a nice guy. He isn't looking for love because those who look for love quickly lose the whole bad boy flair.The essence of a bad boy is isolation, carelessness, self-indulgence, selfishness and attitude.I didn't feel that I should go out of my way to be nice because I liked being nice. There are some women who want the nice guy because they understand that nice means good and not nice means bad. They aren't very open, keeping mostly to themselves – that's mysterious.More than that, I thought that's what women wanted: men who were nice. However, most women seem to have the concepts confused. They distance themselves and give the cold shoulder whenever they don't want something from you; it makes her ego crazy – why doesn't he want her? If he just got to know her better, he would surely fall for her. Not because she’s not lovable but because he isn't loving.It seems to be working well, so he might then think, when he attempts to ask her out on a date or suggest having a relationship? If she enjoys being around him and appreciates his nice behavior, why doesn’t she want to have a sexual relationship with him? If you focus on being nice to a woman and end up being too nice to her, it simply creates feelings of friendly affection towards you, not sexual attraction.Read the dictionary definitions below to see the difference.For added effect, tell her you feel as if you’re falling in love and want to be with her forever.Don’t forget to change all of your opinions to suit hers. Yep, but that’s what most guys are doing, while still wondering why the woman of their dreams isn’t falling for them. Females are players too; we love challenges and we want to feel that the guy we’re dating is a “good catch.” When a guy is acting too eager and clingy, he kills the thrill of the chase, and losses all of his sexual attractiveness.They don’t say to a guy, Instead, they just soak up all the nice treatment and then sleep with a guy who makes them feel how they really want to feel.What do women really want to feel when interacting with a guy? When a guy notices that a woman is reacting in a positive way to his nice behavior (i.e.Bad boys seem more manly – which is an awful way to think as it teaches guys that being bad is more rewarding than being good. If he took her on a date then he might have even bought her flowers, paid for her meal, paid for her drinks, paid for the cab.