You manifest your own destiny during these crucial years. Never do anything just because it's convenient for you.
Look to challenge yourself and build your own dream instead of building someone else's.
This is a declaration for anyone who's in a long-term relationship in their 20s and has felt pressure to "see what else is out there." Some people think that being in a relationship in your 20s makes no sense at all.
I have a sense of stability that allows me to focus on my career rather than wasting energy worrying about if that guy will text me back or if I'll ever fall in love.
Good people, bad people, good people who make bad decisions. In any case, here are 10 potential romantic partners I suggest you avoid.1.
The Emotional Manipulator This person uses your feelings against you.
They assume you're wasting away your youth; however, I couldn't disagree more.Probably relevance for them, for whatever seems important or meaningful for them.I think one thing that makes 20-something jobs feel the worst is when they feel like they’re not relevant, that they’re just a paycheck and they’re not gonna’ lead to anything that we want.I can’t even try to remember how little I earned when I worked in Outward Bound but it felt very relevant to what interested me, which was helping professions and psychology.I was very much underemployed but it didn’t feel so bad.No matter the situation, the blame for every relationship issue falls to you.You could have plans to meet, be standing out in the cold and rain waiting for two hours and it is somehow you who misunderstood their needs. The One Who Won't Be Hated I once dated a guy who was obsessed with over-explaining his actions.Even if it doesn't exactly make sense now, create something with great value so you can cash out big.Always look to the future and never for immediate compensation.I think work became relevant sooner for me than relationships did.I was straight out of school, I was working at Outward Bound, being what I thought I wanted to be.While there are plenty of temptations and distractions, the decisions you make here are truly what dictate your future, as the weak fail and only the strong survive. While many think they have all the answers and the keys to success, we have seen those people make the same pitfalls too many times before.Do you have what it takes to become a monumental success? This is the time for you to hustle, scrap and fight for the life that you want for yourself. These are the 20 Mistakes You Don't Want To Make In Your 20s.Some of the most self-sufficient and motivated women I know happen to be in committed relationships as well.