Every personality comes with its own strengths and weaknesses.
With dating, shy men and women come to the table with a minor disadvantage because dating is a social activity, and shy people have a hard time putting their best foot forward with people brand new to them.
After all, it would be truly impossible to deeply care about anyone you’ve just met, so remember that the stranger in front of you on a date shouldn’t have that much more power over your feelings or mood.
If you make sure to play a part setting up the date so you go to places you love – regardless of how the date goes – you will get better at feeling relaxed and avoid thinking about the possibility of rejection. Sometimes shy men and women can be people pleasers.
If a girl doesn't approach or initiate contact with a shy man, nothing will happen.
When it comes to planning dates with someone new, shy people tend to be too passive.If you can find a way to make those things happen though, oh, will he be loved. Knowing there are certain conversation topics that are off limits because if you brought them up, he'd freak out and combust into a pile of nerves.And the funnest part is trying to find out what those topics are before you accidentally hit that land-mine and he goes into the bathroom and doesn't come back out again. Praying he'll make noise during sex like you're wishing for rain during a drought.At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.A post I made about why women shouldn't take the initiative in relationships evoked some questions about how to deal with shy men - after all, shy men don't chase women, and are unlikely to initiate anything." If you answer these questions sincerely and still want to date him, you then face the problem of making it happen - or rather, making him make it happen. They fall outside of the predator-prey model for sexual interactions that is assumed in the "don't initiate contact" rule.So it is acceptable for you to initiate with a shy guy. The problem with male shyness is that it wears off in specific situations.Combined, the points below will describe a guy who's really, really inhibited and awkward around women.Not all shy men will have issues that intense or have every characteristic apply to them.With that in mind I thought I'd try to be even more helpful and write a whole article outlining what it's like to be a man who's really shy and inexperienced with women.At the end I give a few thoughts on what to do if there's a shy guy in your life you're interested in.The first thing to do when you find yourself attracted to a shy man is to question your feelings for him.In other words, ask yourself "Am I attracted in spite of or because of his shyness? A very close friend of mine is extremely shy, and I know plenty of other guys that are shy. Shy guys, almost by definition, do not have the balls to initiate and pursue women.Dating advice is outside the scope of this site, with this article being a semi-exception.