While this might not be a big problem, but she might still hate me going to pakistan and i dont know what will she think of the country and people there Anyways overall, as for myself I am a really westernized person, most of my friends are Canadians and i can easily fit in the Canadian culture easily now because of my friends.
Do you think he considers me his girlfriend by now? I don't like to assume either way, but I usually wait for the guy to tell me how he feels.I haven't told her anything yet, but we are really close friends and she really cares for me for some reason, its clear she has feelings for me too.Anyways if i do tell her how i feel, can this relationship really work do you think?If you are a man from this part of the world then you need to think about what you're doing when getting in touch with a woman from outside your culture.It's clear that there is a strong cultural divide between Pakistani men and white women.I only ask because I want to be sensitive to the culture and not be pushy... If he was just having fun, there is NO way he would have waited for 2 months to make a move. He is serious and wants it to work and probably doesn't want it to go pear shaped so is taking it slow enough to develop a relationship.but then again if a White/Latino guy was acting like this, I would think he wasn't that into me if by now he did not make it explicit. He may be as Maham said, a bit shy because even though he isnt a practicing Muslim..still has the tendencies we do. He will take his sweet time getting to know you because he may genuinely be interested in you. Muslims don't make physical sexual displays in public because it is considered obscene. If he is not religious he will end up getting fairly physical in time, but he will probably never do anything in public and I wouldn't expect him to either.But the key is that everything is talkable, and open communication is the key to navigating the relationship scene in a country that we are not originally from.I am pakistani guy living in canada for the last10 years and i really like this white girl.That's why it is so important to focus on trying to be more in common with your woman while trying to play down any kinds of differences you might have.It's easy to stick with a strong relationship if you know what's happening between you and your partner.It is hard to believe that my first big day romance-wise happened in a country that I am not from and with a guy who is not Chinese.But I think it just made the whole thing fun, cool and memorable.This doesn't make it impossible for Pakistani men to try and get in touch with these women.