When it comes down to it, a younger woman satisfies one of the most basic human needs: connection.(I talk about this more in my book, .)This is a need that is different for men and women at different stages in their lives.his dry sense of humor kills you, and dang those eyes!And then you learn that the same year you graduated college, he was wrapping up his freshman year—of high school.Here's the bottom line: These women frequently brings out the best in a man as they inevitably make you feel younger, more vital, more focused; brimming with confidence and attracting even more "success" as you pursue other goals in life and achieving total personal fulfillment along the way.They suddenly think they're "too old." They'll feel strange, uncomfortable... And as much as they try to ignore it, there's always that constant nagging, lingering feeling that "something's just not right." Maybe they feel they're not "hip" or "cool" enough to keep up and date these sweet young things. It's not as complicated as most guys make it to be.Dating someone younger—whether you’re two or three years his senior or are talking cougar territory—certainly can work (look at Eva Longoria and her 4-years younger beau), but being an “older woman” in a relationship does tend to come with certain perks and downfalls.
While they will create careers, they also want to eventually create a family.
His more youthful female companion may be more sexually attractive to him (making him feel younger in the process) and she probably doesn't call him out on his issues like an older woman might.
Admit it, when you see an older man who's dating a much younger woman, you assume it's because he must be going through some sort of mid-life crisis.
A woman would gladly give anything to a man who is "in control".
to be with a man who knows his way around women: a man who knows how to treat a lady, who knows exactly what to say and do... Unfortunately, the "stuff" they normally do to ‘convince’ a younger woman to like him back actually end up pushing her further away...